Haylie update - July 20, 2019
The last few weeks have been a challenge. The verse, in this world, you
will have trouble came to mind several times. It seems we have been up
against so many obstacles lately. The last year has been the season of
”no” it seems. Our oncologist has said no lakes, no community swimming
pools, no Galveston beach...Haylie said she just wants to spoil all of
her fun.
🙈
We were so excited when we got accepted by Lighthouse ministries for a
retreat for families going through cancer to spend a week in Destin.
Haylie absolutely loves the beach and has always wanted to go to a
beautiful white sand beach. We had planned a family vacation last summer
to go on a cruise and take the kids to some amazing beaches, then we
had Haylie’s diagnosis, spent the summer in the hospital and everything
was canceled. She even has her room decorated in a beach theme. It has
always been her dream. Finally, a bright spot.
For the past few
months when we watched others getting to do fun things and she couldn’t I
just kept telling her, it’s ok, you get to go to Destin to the
beautiful beach. We had planned on leaving on Sunday but the hurricane
changed our plans. We ended up leaving on Sat afternoon to get ahead of
the storm. After driving through some outer rain bands and a tornado
🌪
we ended up in Florida at 4am. Thank you to the Lairsen’s who callled
ahead and reserved a hotel for us right on the beach. Haylie found her
happy place! The double red flags prevented us from getting in the
water but it was so beautiful.
On Monday we arrived at the
Lighthouse retreat. I actually cried when we got to the room and I saw
the beautiful view. It was like we finally had a week to just rest.
Then the bad news...the flesh eating bacteria level had risen and
Haylie’s oncologist said it wasn’t safe for her to get in the water. Oh
the tears. To be so close to the water and not allowed to get in, it was
just heartbreaking to witness honestly.
I’m so thankful for the
amazing volunteers that still made this an unforgettable beach week
without even getting in the water. My absolute favorite time was Common
Ground, where other parents going through cancer just shared their
journey. I was amazed listening to them talk and my heart feeling
exactly the same thing. To be around other families who completely
understood what it was like, it helped me more than I ever imagined. God
knew exactly what I needed.
On Thursday we were able to go
parasailing. I found a place that said Haylie could take off from the
back of the boat and land back on the boat without getting in the water.
It was definitely a highlight! We then played a little miniature golf
and had a steak dinner so it was a great family day.
So, in this
world we will have trouble, that is a guarantee. Plans don’t go as
expected. But I love the end of the verse...but take heart, because I
have overcome the world. Thank you Jesus! We have a future hope that is
greater than any disappointment we might have here.
We are
headed home now and I am thankful for this week. For the laughs, tears
and memories. Destin was beautiful and we will definitely be back, and
next time, we are hoping to even be able to get in the water.
😉
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| Running to the white sand beach for the first time! It’s her happy place! |
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| Awe, love the beach! |
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| On the pier where we saw dolphins! |
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| 30A! Now we finally know what that stands for. 😂 |
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| Beach picnic and luau at the retreat! |
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| Having fun in the sand |
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| We finally have a beach picture! |
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| So close...next time |
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| Brennen finding shells for Haylie |
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| Parents date night! |
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| Haylie and Michael parasailing! |
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| Brennen and I parasailing |
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| On the boat |
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| A competitive game of putt putt! |
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| Our view for the week. |
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| Our wonderful family partners that volunteered and served us all week. |
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